What is BDSM Sex? Can humiliation be exciting?

BDSM - the basic elements

• - Restraint - when one person has restricted movements, the partner has a greater sense of power. This makes them feel more dominant and excited.
• - Discipline - involves the submissive person. Any failure to follow the rules imposed by the "master" may result in punishment, such as flogging or spanking.
• - Domination - dedicated to only one person during BDSM sex. This person decides on the development of the situation and on what will be done and what orders will be carried out by his partner.
• - Submissiveness - is meant to characterize the partner who has consented to be humiliated. So-called submissives are often given corporal punishment for any movements or gestures. They are also given orders such as pretending to be an animal.

Sadomasochism and BDSM sex

Sadomasochism comes from two terms: "sado" and "masochism" and directly links to the practices used in BDSM sex.

Sadism refers to feeling physical pleasure while inflicting pain on another person. Masochism refers to people who feel sexual arousal when they have to submit to someone else during intercourse, when they are humiliated and sexually abused.

Sadomasochism can also mean the damage that one partner suffers as a result of extreme play, such as after being strangled or whipped too hard. It is worth remembering that ill-considered play during BDSM sex can even lead a partner to death!

Safety during BDSM sex

This form of love does not emphasize gentleness and comfort during intercourse. On the contrary, one of the partners is expected to feel pain and humiliation. This person is usually bound or gagged with a belt or rope. He or she may be handcuffed or immobilized by a straitjacket.

During BDSM sex, many boundaries are crossed to fully experience sexual freedom. However, the most important rule is to stay safe during intercourse. A special code of conduct has been developed to protect submissive role models.

SSC - an abbreviation coming from the English language describing a set of rules that should be applied during BDSM sex, i.e. sex should be "safe, consensual and in your right mind".

RACK - a code regulating the rules that should be respected during BDSM sex. Its main premise is that everyone is responsible for their own well-being during intercourse. RACK aims to promote informed decisions and knowledge in this area.

Due to the fact that BDSM sex has its own set of rules, it is categorically distinguished from, for example, domestic violence or sexual abuse. People who have intercourse are aware that their partner may inflict pain on them during rapprochement. The most important thing is that they determine beforehand to what limits they can go as far as possible. Additionally, they have to introduce a safety password, i.e. a word or gesture after which the partner categorically ends the intercourse.

Gadgets used during BDSM sex

• whips - an appropriate prop for administering punishment. It is best if it is made of real leather. It can be used to deliver blows to the chest area without worrying that they cut the skin.
• whips - inflict severe pain and are therefore recommended for people advanced in BDSM sex. This prop can be used to deliver blows on the body except for the head. Because of the massiveness of the prop, however, it is recommended to use it to administer punishment on the buttocks of the submissive.
• harnesses - the dominant person can fasten this prop on the submissive, e.g. when he wants her to play the role of an animal, such as a horse
• masks - worn on the face, so that the other person can not see the facial expression and facial expressions of the dominant, and thus was more uncertain about the feelings of his partner.
• Latex - the material that makes up the costumes worn during sex. In bed games, you can dress up at will to make the intimacy even more entertaining.
• Thigh straps - once on and properly positioned, these can be used as an aid to prevent, for example, the thighs from being joined or separated. The legs will then be in the position desired by the dominant person.
• leashes and collars - put on the submissive person in the situation when he has to play the role of an obedient dog.
• scarves - one of the disguises that can be introduced during BDSM sex.
• enemas - during BDSM sex, the submissive can be made to defecate completely by using an enema
• clamps and clips - can be pinned on the skin in any place. Preferably they should be placed on the nipples.
• crepe belts, gags, ropes, handcuffs - these are ideal for restraining movement or making it completely impossible to change the submissive's position.

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BDSM for beginners, or how to start?

If you are in a long-term relationship and your erotic life has entered a routine, and you want to change it, you do not have to immediately start with methods that will scare your partner. You don't have to colloquially go all the way to introduce innovations during sex that will spice up your erotic life. Start with small, safe toys and if the two of you find that they work for you, keep trying. There's a reason both the book series and the movie "Fifty Faces of Grey" became bestsellers.

Ties - you can tie your partner to the bed so that the submissive's movements are restricted. In the beginning, use a tie instead of handcuffs and ropes for this purpose, so that the other person is aware that at any time with a stronger tug, they can free themselves.

Hitting - whipping or flogging are the most popular games in BDSM, but they are definitely not recommended for the beginning. You need to prepare the other person well to feel any pain during sex. The level of pain that occurs when using additional, such as latex props, may prove to be too intense. Initially, introduce traditional spanking as a form of punishment for disobedience. You can adjust the strength of the spanking as you see fit, while also gauging how the submissive responds.

Blindfolding - BDSM sex is also about one person having no control over the scenario. You don't have to start this adventure by inflicting pain and violence if you decide you don't enjoy it. You can tie your partner to the bed and cover her eyes or face. The very fact of being powerless and not knowing what is about to happen can greatly stimulate the submissive, but also the dominant person by having total power over the other person.

BDSM sex - is it legal?

In Poland, dissemination of content that promotes sexual violence is punishable by imprisonment from two to twelve years. On the other hand, practicing BDSM sex, that is a form of sexual intercourse with the use of violence (with the consent of two people living together) is not subject to any legal sanctions. However, there are countries where this situation looks different. An example is the United Kingdom, where such acts are illegal. Their practice is punishable. Opponents of this law argue that intercourse takes place between adults who should be free to make decisions about their own bodies. Nonetheless, British law does not allow physical pain to be inflicted on another person, even with their consent.